tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3874656382203957840.post2098121456048221061..comments2024-03-28T09:15:45.904-04:00Comments on Shipslog: Obituaries!!!jack69http://www.blogger.com/profile/12884137603402812926noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3874656382203957840.post-68113595466300073182019-05-26T00:23:51.757-04:002019-05-26T00:23:51.757-04:00Just yesterday we visited Bill's uncle, his la...Just yesterday we visited Bill's uncle, his last living uncle, no more aunts on his side either. While visiting, his uncle showed us many black n' whites of their families before them. So many names we never knew. It's important to gather this information for our kids and theirs while there is still ' one more left ' to give it. There will be a family reunion this summer of which we pray Uncle Bob can attend. His memory of 91 yrs. is very sharp. Even the youngsters like to listen to his stories. As for obits, I will be gone so what my family chooses to do, and/or write will be fine with me. Such things Are for the living. <br />love n' hugs from up north where there isn't a white line around me just yet.Darhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16642092433299872708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3874656382203957840.post-57791630230587323082019-05-25T00:38:30.622-04:002019-05-25T00:38:30.622-04:00i think it's a good idea to write you obituary...i think it's a good idea to write you obituary.TARYTERREhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14620999913159718018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3874656382203957840.post-47881655737149923152019-05-23T18:16:47.174-04:002019-05-23T18:16:47.174-04:00I just realized, I need to take a page from Lisa. ...I just realized, I need to take a page from Lisa. Everything's changed so, since we moved here. Only this morning Tom and I attended a funeral for an 'older' gentleman, complete with full military honors. Amazing, and I suspect his obit had been written well in advance. <br />I'm glad you shared (about Shirl) the way in which you did. Her friends may have been gone, but you and Sherry needed to honor your own pain. I'm reminded of the title from a old, well-loved book: "Tears are for the Living." Mevely317https://www.blogger.com/profile/14786988262452989091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3874656382203957840.post-16281989946230221562019-05-23T14:15:16.116-04:002019-05-23T14:15:16.116-04:00I have not written my Obituary but I have written ...I have not written my Obituary but I have written down my funeral arrangements and songs to be sung and words to be said but I have also changed it twice so far. <br /><br />Love from above ground<br />Lisa Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03109633602729593188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3874656382203957840.post-26929822446240686512019-05-23T11:48:20.314-04:002019-05-23T11:48:20.314-04:00I think Sherry was wise to have you write your own...I think Sherry was wise to have you write your own obituary. I think its a smart thing to do for the very reason she mentioned. In people's grief they do forget some things that the deceased might want mentioned. I know the news people etc. write obituaries for the famous people ahead of time and then just add on what needs to be written to make it up to date when they pass. I think a picture halfway in one's life could be good for an obituary. That's the ones hubby and his brother chose for their parents. Not in their prime but still successful (and not old) looking.<br /><br />I go back and forth, but I'm like Shirl mostly. No obits, no service, just let the few that need to know I'm no longer here and have gone home.<br /><br />bettybettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06323135450742337670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3874656382203957840.post-29530011361966161122019-05-23T10:49:48.704-04:002019-05-23T10:49:48.704-04:00I am glad you honored MOST of your sister's in...I am glad you honored MOST of your sister's instructions. It is kind of sad to think she did not want anyone to know of her passing---and be able to mourn that fact.<br /><br />Many of our friends have passed away--most, sadly, from cancer. It is so hard to lose those that we have been close to in life, isn't it? Even if we don't see a person for a long time, we know they are 'there' somewhere living their lives and when/if we connect with them it is just as if no time has passed.<br /><br />I hope you and Sherry have a beautiful day. xo DianaNanaDianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14298962791700019785noreply@blogger.com