“Kilroy
was here”
The line: 'Kilroy
was here' was popular when my brothers were building their
homes. Odis was an artist, He would do Betty Grable on lumber to entertain the other's working. He did a lot of the Eyes and nose of Kilroy on
scrap lumber.
Jr. was destined to make his mark in business and became wealthy. He did this by working year round 7 days a week, with a week off on the 4th. Jr. was in the retail business, he began making concrete yard decorations such as bird baths, ducks and chickens. He and his wife worked full time in the cotton mill, and he poured the concrete in the evenings and weekends. The business morphed into flowers, pottery and china. They quit their jobs and built a store for their products.
Odis and his wife Ruth. She was one sweet lady!
Odis was a craftsman and could do anything with wood. He
left the mill and our Uncle Hisure taught him the ropes of driving a truck.
He drove big rigs and in his spare time would create
things of wood. He built a fleet of wooden ships. The smallest
ships had 4 feet hulls and were replicas of the Pinta, Nina and Santa Marie.
The largest were nine feet hulls, air craft carriers and battle ships.
His first Battle ship, the USS North Carolina won Mechanics Illustrated
Gold Hammer award and was viewed internationally in Mechanics Illustrated.
(Odis and some of his ships. He invited me to be there for a photo shoot for a Bank in Charlotte that displayed his ships at their grand opening.)
(Odis and some of his ships. He invited me to be there for a photo shoot for a Bank in Charlotte that displayed his ships at their grand opening.)
Odis lived and died within 300 yards of Jr's business but they were
never close. I never understood that. They were both great guys.
Both my heroes.
I have known other
brothers who did not get along, that always confuses me. I had no
sibling that I did not love dearly and would have done anything for. I know a
couple families with wonderful parents and kids that loved and played together but
are pulled apart.
For one of my books I asked friends for quote's to use. One I
have never forgotten:
"When there is a disagreement, the one who loves the most will
apologize first."
I will NEVER understand my brothers. There was NEVER anything
open, no arguments when the family met, they talked, joked and laughed, but I
knew they did not 'like' each other, and it hurt. Little brothers
can sense some things. LOL
I am glad to read in
the comments that some of you also never used the term siblings, I know folks
who use it and it does sound ‘okay’, but when I try to use the word, it seems
cold. I do not know why.






























