Tuesday, November 4, 2025

Wednesday 11-5 … A little More on ADVICE.

 Today’s picture:

 


BUT for today:

Advice from my childhood. In my youth one thing my dad kept reminding me, “Do not play the other guy’s game unless you KNOW the rules and are good at it.”

What I Know about investing in stocks:

1.       You can get filthy rich!

2.       You can go dead broke!

Someone I know lost thousands in a few days! Another acquaintance said he had lost 14 million in a day.

I know some about real estate investment. If you have $150,000 that you can invest you can buy a CD and make 3%. OR you can buy a house for $150,000 and rent it out for $1000 a month. That will give you 8%. The house is better than a CD but more involved.

Debt free living is our practice.  Of course we have not always been able to do that.  WE financed one car and had a mortgage on one home. We DO NOT pay interest on Credit Cards; we use two and make money on them. Theys are paid off monthly, and the bank gives us rewards.  We are being paid to use their money. I smile at that ;-)

There is NOTHING wrong with living in debt if you don’t mind paying the interest, can keep up the payments and it doesn’t stress you out.

ME?  I cannot do that, I would be stressed, and it would not be good for my health.

Things have made me roll my eyes. A friend who was earning 6 figures a year, when $12 and hour was good money. He was driving a new truck I said, “Man that is a great truck, I bet you like it.”

“Yeah Jack, I do, and the payments are just $50 more a month than my old one.”  (shocked, I had assumed he had paid for it) He had financed a 20k truck and earned over $100,000 a yr. That amazed me.

Anyway, family finances and how they are handled are personal business. Our attitudes here are set, don’t get it if you cannot pay for it.



When I decided to go into business my girl had something to say about that. (I have probably said it before) Sherry said, “I am all for it, but PROMISE ME you will not go into debt more than we can pay off and NEVER BUILD A HOUSE that we would not live in, because if the bottom falls out, we just might have to do that.

promised and followed her guidelines, and we did well.


NOW, Not sure if I showed you our latest GGranddaughter Dillon.  If not here is Jack Wiley and Maverick with their new                     sister Dillon (a day old).

Nite Shipslog

PS: 

WE are on the downhill run here in FL. We head back to NC next Monday, where we will start our move, this will be our 26th move I think. LOL  Since we sold our place in Leesburg to son Mark, our long thought plan is finding a fixer-upper north, maybe the Palatka area (since we love Corky Bell's Sea food) that sounds like a good idea. LOL

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7 comments:

Victor S E Moubarak said...

Very good advice regarding debts and how to manage money. I agree; I pay my credit cards in full and our bank gives us money on the use of the credit card.

You have a lovely family Jack ... but then; this is because you and Sherry are lovely.

God bless you all. Bon voyage.

Chatty Crone said...

Great advice. We do the same thing with our two credit cards too. And we live debt free - we don't have a lot, but we have enough.
Oh my gosh your GGrands are ADORABLE! And the baby is one day old? She looks like Mackenzie!

I'm mostly known as 'MA' said...

Good advice! Before I retired I paid all my debts and cut up the cARDS. I did get a debit card though. It's like paying cash and I don't like to carry a lot of real cash on me. Have a good trip home. I hope you are ready to settle down a little!

HappyK said...

We don't have any debt either and do the same with credit cards!!
Your grand children sure are cute!!

Mevely317 said...

Having served as the "bad example" for many years, I can sure appreciate your philosophy. Thankfully now we're (mostly) debt free. I don't let credit card debt carry over from one month to the next. That's a trap!

Mevely317 said...

I'm back! Couldn't leave without commenting ❤️ on your precious great grands. Neat names!
Something else. I wonder if you "know" Pam at Closed Doors Open Windows who often comments on my blog?(https://pamelasopenwindow.blogspot.com/2025/11/wednesday-treasures-autumn-days-in.html)

Anyway, she and her hubby live in Interlachen and eat at Corky Bells often! Small world!

Glenda said...

Jack, you and Sherry both look great in the photo! Brought me to big smiles :)