Saturday, January 10, 2026

Saturday… A little more (a miracle, did I make it up? I do not think so, )

 



So, for today:

I was raised in a Pastor’s home.  My beliefs and standards were set by what I saw at home and what I took time to listen to in church, which was as little as possible as a boy. Let me say here, I think Children’s Church is a great idea, but I also think children should be in ‘big people’s church’ at least once a month.

  Since I came along long before Children’s church, I sat thru ALL big people’s church services. Singing was okay however I, and my buddies, tried many ways to pass time during sermons.

One of us had a watch, we passed time seeing who could hold their breath the longest.  If I remember right it was seldom over a minute; the average was about 45 seconds.

But away from church services, my mama and daddy were just as humble, honest and true behind scenes in our home as they were in church. Since I was raised around church, I heard many pastors, VERY FEW had anything bad to say about church members. To my dad, his church was his family.

My present pastor has no qualms of speaking of ‘terrible members he had at previous churches’.  The pain church members caused his family and wife, etc. I wonder to myself. “If he would go to pastor another church, would he have the same statements about us, his present members?”

When I hear those or similar statements, my mind goes to my upbringing, I NEVER ONCE heard my parents say in private at home or at church, ANYTHING bad about the church members, past or present. Over the years I have had many people come to me and tell me of good things my parents did for them during his pastorates.



Something from my childhood set the stage for my misgivings about my role in life to be a ‘Preacher’ and the same thing set my life up for loss of faith. You ask, how could that be?

I was 4 years old, my sister was 6 or 7. The parsonage was beside the church. WE were playing on the church steps, she fell and screamed so loud it brought dad out of the house. I looked and Shirley’s arm was broken. Even to a kid I knew the arm should not bend between the elbow and wrist.

Dad took Shirley into the church, she was screaming and crying, he was praying. I and friends followed. He placed Shirely on the alter, kneeling beside her he straighten her arm and continued to pray and Shirley quit crying. I had witnessed what my dad had preached about, MIRACLES. It wasn’t more than 10-15 minutes, and we were playing again after daddy told us to be more careful.

WE all went on about our lives as if all was normal, and to us it was.

 

Nite Shipslog

PS: AS far as I remember, I NEVER heard dad say a thing about that, it was as if it was just normal. That was my one and only miracle. I have heard of many, but that is my only one.

Sorry this is too long I will continue..

5 comments:

Chatty Crone said...

Wow - speechless.

I do think your dad not talking about others was a great witness!

Susan Kane said...

Such a great telling of the MIRACLES that God does in the small and big ways. What a solid family...You are lucky.

Mevely317 said...

That's amazing!
I always enjoy hearing how your dad (and mom) lived their Faith ... not just giving it lip service on Sunday mornings.

I'm mostly known as 'MA' said...

Wow! Your dad was a healer. That is an amazing miracle. Our pastor never say bad about anyone. I can't imagine a pastor should be doing that. Not very Christainlike at all.

Pamela M. Steiner said...

What a powerful testimony of God's grace and power to heal! I do believe in miracles...we've had quite a few in our lifetime, and yes, my husband was a minister and our kids were all raised in the parsonage and church. We did have some difficult churches over the years and some difficult church members. We tried not to say anything negative about individuals, but some actions were obvious to our kids and to us so nothing needed to be said. I am thankful for the years of ministry, and God truly took good care of us even in spite of some the negative things that happened. IT was all character building, I guess you could say. We are thankful to be retired now and but we still serve the Lord in our local church and community in whatever way the Lord directs. God is good, all the time, God is good.