So, for today:
I was raised in
a Pastor’s home. My beliefs and
standards were set by what I saw at home and what I took time to listen to in
church, which was as little as possible as a boy. Let me say here, I think
Children’s Church is a great idea, but I also think children should be in ‘big
people’s church’ at least once a month.
Since I came along long before Children’s
church, I sat thru ALL big people’s church services. Singing was okay however I,
and my buddies, tried many ways to pass time during sermons.
One of us
had a watch, we passed time seeing who could hold their breath the longest. If I remember right it was seldom over a
minute; the average was about 45 seconds.
But away
from church services, my mama and daddy were just as humble, honest and true
behind scenes in our home as they were in church. Since I was raised around
church, I heard many pastors, VERY FEW had anything bad to say about church
members. To my dad, his church was his family.
My present
pastor has no qualms of speaking of ‘terrible members he had at previous
churches’. The pain church members
caused his family and wife, etc. I wonder to myself. “If he would go to pastor another
church, would he have the same statements about us, his present members?”
When I hear those
or similar statements, my mind goes to my upbringing, I NEVER ONCE heard my
parents say in private at home or at church, ANYTHING bad about the church
members, past or present. Over the years I have had many people come to me and
tell me of good things my parents did for them during his pastorates.
Something
from my childhood set the stage for my misgivings about my role in life to be a
‘Preacher’ and the same thing set my life up for loss of faith. You ask, how
could that be?
I was 4 years
old, my sister was 6 or 7. The parsonage was beside the church. WE were playing
on the church steps, she fell and screamed so loud it brought dad out of the
house. I looked and Shirley’s arm was broken. Even to a kid I knew the arm should
not bend between the elbow and wrist.
Dad took
Shirley into the church, she was screaming and crying, he was praying. I and
friends followed. He placed Shirely on the alter, kneeling beside her he
straighten her arm and continued to pray and Shirley quit crying. I had
witnessed what my dad had preached about, MIRACLES. It wasn’t more than 10-15 minutes,
and we were playing again after daddy told us to be more careful.
WE all went
on about our lives as if all was normal, and to us it was.
PS: AS far as I remember, I NEVER heard dad say a thing about that, it was
as if it was just normal. That was my one and only miracle. I have heard of
many, but that is my only one.
Sorry this
is too long I will continue..



4 comments:
Wow - speechless.
I do think your dad not talking about others was a great witness!
Such a great telling of the MIRACLES that God does in the small and big ways. What a solid family...You are lucky.
That's amazing!
I always enjoy hearing how your dad (and mom) lived their Faith ... not just giving it lip service on Sunday mornings.
Wow! Your dad was a healer. That is an amazing miracle. Our pastor never say bad about anyone. I can't imagine a pastor should be doing that. Not very Christainlike at all.
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