Friday, November 29, 2024

Those gone on, Memories

Pic of the day;

Gone on before, Sherry's entire family except her, and below my family except me... 



                                                                     Dad & Mom

Katherine (Kat)
Shirley (Shirl)

                     Junior            (Jun)                        Odis  (Od)
There was a sister, Oveline,  and a baby boy they  did not live. long

 For today:

Sheila said her dad Grover's favorite Ice Cream was Butter Pecan and Black Walnut, Funny that, Black walnut is my second choice too, I’m also just a nut!

Sheila’s mom was the Blogger I called Jean of Opp. Not long after we were married, I remember Sherry saying someone she knew had moved to Opp, Alabama. I thought that is a strange name. I never KNEW I would meet and enjoy someone from there.

                ``````````````````` Me 'n Sherry with Jean and Grover

I cannot think of San Antonio without seeing Paula in my mind.

                                        ```````  Sherry & me with Paula  and John

They were both impressive people both these girls took care of their husbands before their deaths. NOT one complaint. They were both fun loving and serious girls.

Oh and oh yes, some of you remember Lucy of Nebraska. Lucy was a card.  You had to love her.  I wish I had known Joe, her hubby was retired USAF.  We would have had more in common. Lucy is now gone, she was different from the other two girls from Blog land, but still a loveable lady.

Sherry snapped this one of me 'n Lucy


I have been in a crying mode lately, not a norm for a STUD like me. LOL I am outliving all these wonderful people, and have no idea why?

Life takes lots of turns. Before Sherry married me her longest trips were to the beach once a year with family. About 204 miles or 328 Kilos, methinks. Since marrying me, she has not stopped. BUT methinks she is about ready to slow down.

My girl's mind is not slowing down. Her memory is still rock solid. She knows the birthdays and deaths of our families and others she has known.  I couldn’t tell you anyone’s BD except mine, my dad’s (because his was 3 days from mine) and hers, of course.  I do not know the years my parents of siblings passed, much less hers.

I like to say her memory is better because of her interests, but I KNOW I am declining and it hurts.  My sister used to call us and say, “You need to come home and take care of me, I am losing my memory.” I did not take her serious.

Now I am not yet as bad as she was, but I KNOW me, and something is happening to ME.  My girl and family pass it off in my presence, it is just old age.  Yeah RIGHT!!

I am still smart enough to know this is about 400 words. 412 as a matter of fact.

THAT was before I read this from NanaDiana, a verse from her poem:

I never dreamed when I was a child,
That the day would come to be,
That the old homestead would all be gone
And the only family left would be me.

Nite Shipslog

PS 

Numbers stick in my head methinks. 

I am Still THANKFUL for all the visits, Love you guys. Of course each of you is special.

 

Sunday, November 24, 2024

Facebook picture

 Pic of the day;

 


 NO!  that is not my new FB picture, I know some of you think that is Sherry & I, but NOT SO. That is just how we FEEL, BUT that is Grandson Joshua and his beautiful wife Megan, not long after their marriage! Great shot, HUH?

 For today:

Ok Imma try not to complain this entry. But let me say there will come a time I cannot jump thru the hoops this thing requires, so if I disappear, I will be trying to learn to do Face Book.

I hear there are other ‘social media that folks are going to, so I may be too late to decipher Facebook.

I did change my Facebook picture.  I used the Diplomat RV forever. It now belongs to son Mark, so I wanted to change. I replaced it with a wedding picture. I have received some great comments. I am humbled by many of them. And when I look at it, I see, know how danged lucky I am; she was the prettiest thing I’ve ever seen (still is)!

Anyway, since I am going to keep trying, I wanted to say since this is Thanksgiving time.  I am THANKFUL for every day HE has given us.

I had comments from kids who were 10/12 and I was 22 when we knew each other. Funny how age is, when you are the 22 year old person and know a 10-year-old, you never think that one day you will be on the same page in life. Then you become 60 and they are 50 lives has a whole new perspective.

One sweet lady, Linda, commented. I had to smile she has now been married close to 60 years, and I performed the ceremony. I only performed two weddings; the other did not last. OUCH.  But we are both proud of Steve and Linda, they have succeeded in creating a wonderful family.

PROUD AND THANKFUL

Some of you commented, THANKFUL

There was also a humbling comment from Rev. Scott who pastors in N Florida. We met on our travels. THANKFUL

And an evangelist I heard in Missouri in 1962, I met him again in about 2015 in Florida, commented, it was good to hear from Carl. I think he and his wife have been married about as long as us.

Also a cousin out in California, she is a sweetie. And a nephew, great guy, who became a black smith in his later years. He makes some amazing stuff.

Anyway, I have made it thru this entry without complaining. I am so THANKFUL for all the memories, the comments from you here. I am THANKFUL for folks I learn who read daily but do not comment.

FB picture, most of you have seen this.


Me in my dress blues at 17 years old. I married an older woman,  Sherry was 18 (some folks say she should have known better!!)

 

Nite Shipslog

PS 

THANKFUL for all the visits, Love you guys. Of course each of you is special.

Friday, November 22, 2024

Technology and my age

 Pic of the day;

 

 


 For today:

Again, I was blocked out of the internet most of the day, AFTER CLICKING ‘UPDATE!

I am trying to control the bad words it causes also when an alert jumps on the screen that reads:

This Computer has experienced a major problem and MUST restart. Sorry!   And then the computer just shuts down.

Now I am wondering is this Laptop that I am about to get familiar with, about to crash for good?       Who KNOWS?

I am full time retired, presently house sitting, but no matter where I am I seem to find 6-8 hours of work to do. Today I built a roller base for a 700 pound (Weight I was told)  Ice & cold water machine. Seen in fast food places where you get your own ice and drink.





It sits in my way on son’s carport deck. I wanted to be able to move it around. It was given to him; he plans to sell it soon. It took me most of the day to raise it 7 inches so I could slide the roller base underneath it, but I got it done. Using pry bars and leverage 1/2 inch at a time. LOL


 I could lift 50 pounds above my head. I am stubborn and am now limited to exercising with a Three (3!!!) pound dumbbell. When I first started, I could raise it above my head two times. I am up to 9 now but it tires me out. I am weak as dishwater. Sherry can lift that little weight easier than I.

I eat well, I also consume a 48 oz box of Butter Pecan Ice Cream in 4 nights. I eat raisins, an apple or applesauce, hard candy and also a hunk of cheese and crackers every night, I never gain a pound. When I joined the USMC in 1956 I weighed 137 pounds, I now stay between 135 and 139. Before my bout with Covid 2 yrs ago, for over 50 years before, I stayed at 158-160. I have always laughed at cold weather.  Now I am shivering cold in 45 degree weather.

My dream of hiking the AT and even seeing Ireland, is fading. I am finding it harder and harder to face reality, That reality IS, in a couple months, I will be 86 years old. You realize, if HE lets me live,   in 4 years I will be 90 years old.

I was born in 1939 my life expectancy was 62, so at least I have beat the odds.  That somehow does not satisfy me, I still have things to do. LOL

Glad you took time to read my bellyaching. I love you for it.

Nite Shipslog

PS 

Thanks for all the visits, Love you guys. Of course each of you is special.

 

Thursday, November 21, 2024

Sherry must have gotten old; I didn’t know that!

 

Pic of the day;

 I could not tell Joshua from Stephen in 1987

But in 2013 at Joshua and Megan's wedding,
they are the last two on the right. Yep they have both been fans of Super Heroes, so this is at the wedding, neat huh? Now I can tell them apart!  LOL


 Josh is Superman, he just completed a 26.2 mile Marathon, I consider that SUPER!

 For today:

Well, it finally happened my young wife of 68 years must now be old.  She now wears hearing aids, and her hair covers them; she isn’t saying ‘what did you say?’ anymore. NICE.

I did not go into the office otherwise I might not keep my opinions to myself. One thing I TRY to do is NOT give advice on a person’s health, unless I see a DANGER. I DO NOT recommend vitamins or any supplements. I have an opinion, and it is if you eat well this body will take care of itself. I also think if you listen, your body will tell you things that a doctor cannot see or know. HOWEVER I do know also that everyone’s body is different. So, if eggs are good for me, they might be terrible for someone else.

I actually changed one of my meds the Dr. gave me. I Cut in half the prescription of Statin, then finally cut it out. The Dr. was ok with that, however he did remind me “You are no doc-ta!”, so let me know when you change something.  He is a great guy and of course I am honest with him.

I am gonna tell him I have changed the ‘Iron’ prescribed by his substitute at my last appointment from one a day -- to one a week.  It makes no sense to me to put my body thru daily constipation which then requires something to relieve the constipation. LOL

When I am straining, I think of Elvis.  I read he died on the stool straining.  Shucks 85 is too young to die on the potty.  LOL

I am terrible with sight recognition. As a kid, I studied the FBI’s most wanted criminals faces that hung in every Post Office. But when I turned to go out the door, if I met one, I would not know him. Sherry on the other hand, would.

She commented that Myra is one who can note sights and similarities as well, saying that just by her blog and comments. re: the comment of Josh and JJ.

When a new baby is born in our family, they all look alike to me, but Sherry will pick up something that is like the mother or daddy.  NOT ME!

That doesn’t mean I am thick; if I think hard enough I can tell you the measurements of our house and rooms. LOL! OH YES, and I can tell the difference in a 1955 & 1956 Chevy; or tell a Packard from a Studebaker, BY GRAVY! 

                                The one below is definitely the Studebaker!


I couldn't tell our Grand-Twins apart as kids, but I can now! They have matured, took different paths, but are great guys.

re: top pics.

 

Nite Shipslog

PS 

Thanks for all the visits, Love you guys. Of course each of you is special.

Wednesday, November 20, 2024

Aw Shucks!

Pic of the day;

 

I was unable to get the photos down I needed to compare the two lakes, but in reading Lake Moraine is listed as the most beautiful lake in Canada.  BUT they both are very beautiful..

 For today:

It is a little late. But it is nice to smile after being blocked from the net for hours. As you know, about every day or so, or every 24 hours, this computer must go down for Updates.  Well, it seems that after the updates lately I have a problem, this one just would not recognize my local Verizon wifi machine. So I have been off for a good while.

BUT as I said this time I got to smile, I appreciate all the readers here.  But this time I got a couple surprises. I was able to read comments from a day or so ago that had not shown up, GOOD STUFF! ~One was an old Blogging friend, Teacher’s Pet, that let me know she is still around, SWEET.

I was surprised that some even took time to read ‘The Cremation of Sam McGee.” Seeing those signs as I drove sure made me think.  Who would have thought as I read that poem in 1951/52 in a small mountain classroom in Valdese, NC that I would one day be driving in Canada’s Great Yukon and actually see Lake Lebarge. About 75 years later.

Oh yes, and I was corrected by a young man I am so proud of. Grandson Josh had finished a 26.2 mile marathon. I have ran a lot, and marched a bunch, but I have never even marched 26 miles without a 1/2 hour break, much less ran it.

We have traveled and Josh and wife Megan have traveled. He holds it over my head that they have made my dream trip to Ireland, and we haven’t made it yet.  LOL

Also proud that he reads the blog, Thanks Josh. However he did correct his Grandpa.  In a Text, “Hey Grandpa that is not a picture of Lake Louise, that is Lake Moraine, but it is close to Louise however.  LOL  To top it off he sends me a picture of Megan and himself at both lakes. ;-).  They are a lovely  couple and great parents., one day I will show you those pictures, I just cannot get them off my phone. LOL

Now I am gonna try to get those pictures here. Josh could do it in a flash, his grandpa has yet to conquer this later technology (Later than 1962 LOL), but Imma try. LOL

 I got one, don't know how.  I will try to get the other. This is Josh and Megan at Lake Louise....


This was an update LOL  I hope it is the right pic.


Nite Shipslog

PS 

Thanks for all the visits  Love you guys.  Friends can be forever, even if you never contact each other, you do have memories...

 

Sunday, November 17, 2024

The ALCAN DRIVE

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  For today:

There can be troubles on trips, especially on the long ones in less populated areas.  It is good to get advice from folks who have made the same journey you plan, and much of it you learn comes in handy.


On the trip to Alaska for the driver it is a pleasure. Not only the scenery, such as the Canadian Rockies, but the traffic. It is hard to imagine driving an hour without seeing more 10 cars, trucks or RVs (at times 0)

This is Lake Louise in the Rockies,  but a good bit off the ALCAN but still a beautiful drive there (But Louise was a year or so later after our ALCAN drive)



One particular point a truck driver gave me, he said, “Not if, but when, you see a big Moose running or walking your way on the roadside, slow down to a crawl, if necessary, BECAUSE 9 out of 10 times he is going to cross in front of you.  That proved to be true at least 2 or 3 times.


These moose pic from net, cannot find ours.

One that about got me.  Every time you see a service station, regardless the price, FILL ER UP!, At times you may be 100 miles from a station.  We were traveling with My sister and hubby Dick. Both coaches were diesel. Somehow, I ran low and had to borrow 5 gallons from him.

I was told be ready for a cracked windshield, many are lost when meeting trucks as they at times throw gravel with their tires. I did not get a crack until we got back to the states. LOL.

Driving you also get SUPER surprises. It had been years since I even thought about a poem I had read in Mrs Grill’s 7th grade, then I crossed “The Sam McGee Bridge!”

Did I read that right. AND then I saw a sign saying Lake Labarge, YES!!! and I started quoting:

There are strange things done in the midnight sun

      By the men who moil for gold;

The Arctic trails have their secret tales

      That would make your blood run cold;

The Northern Lights have seen queer sights,

      But the queerest they ever did see

Was that night on the marge of Lake Lebarge

      I cremated Sam McGee.

 YES Driving can cause one to think... 

Nite Shipslog

PS 

Thanks for all the visits  Love you guys I don’t expect you to take the time to read this but it costs nothing for me to just print it at a PS

The interesting parts I remembered are in highlight. The end is sorta funny,

 

The Cremation of Sam McGee

By Robert W. Service

 

Now Sam McGee was from Tennessee, where the cotton blooms and blows.

Why he left his home in the South to roam 'round the Pole, God only knows.

He was always cold, but the land of gold seemed to hold him like a spell;

Though he'd often say in his homely way that "he'd sooner live in hell."

 

On a Christmas Day we were mushing our way over the Dawson trail.

Talk of your cold! through the parka's fold it stabbed like a driven nail.

If our eyes we'd close, then the lashes froze till sometimes we couldn't see;

It wasn't much fun, but the only one to whimper was Sam McGee.

 

And that very night, as we lay packed tight in our robes beneath the snow,

And the dogs were fed, and the stars o'erhead were dancing heel and toe,

He turned to me, and "Cap," says he, "I'll cash in this trip, I guess;

And if I do, I'm asking that you won't refuse my last request."

 

Well, he seemed so low that I couldn't say no; then he says with a sort of moan:

"It's the cursèd cold, and it's got right hold till I'm chilled clean through to the bone.

Yet 'tain't being dead—it's my awful dread of the icy grave that pains;

So I want you to swear that, foul or fair, you'll cremate my last remains."

 

A pal's last need is a thing to heed, so I swore I would not fail;

And we started on at the streak of dawn; but God! he looked ghastly pale.

He crouched on the sleigh, and he raved all day of his home in Tennessee;

And before nightfall a corpse was all that was left of Sam McGee.

 

There wasn't a breath in that land of death, and I hurried, horror-driven,

With a corpse half hid that I couldn't get rid, because of a promise given;

It was lashed to the sleigh, and it seemed to say: "You may tax your brawn and brains,

But you promised true, and it's up to you to cremate those last remains."

 

Now a promise made is a debt unpaid, and the trail has its own stern code.

In the days to come, though my lips were dumb, in my heart how I cursed that load.

In the long, long night, by the lone firelight, while the huskies, round in a ring,

Howled out their woes to the homeless snows— O God! how I loathed the thing.

 

And every day that quiet clay seemed to heavy and heavier grow;

And on I went, though the dogs were spent and the grub was getting low;

The trail was bad, and I felt half mad, but I swore I would not give in;

And I'd often sing to the hateful thing, and it hearkened with a grin.

 

Till I came to the marge of Lake Lebarge, and a derelict there lay;

It was jammed in the ice, but I saw in a trice it was called the "Alice May."

And I looked at it, and I thought a bit, and I looked at my frozen chum;

Then "Here," said I, with a sudden cry, "is my cre-ma-tor-eum."

 

Some planks I tore from the cabin floor, and I lit the boiler fire;

Some coal I found that was lying around, and I heaped the fuel higher;

The flames just soared, and the furnace roared—such a blaze you seldom see;

And I burrowed a hole in the glowing coal, and I stuffed in Sam McGee.

 

Then I made a hike, for I didn't like to hear him sizzle so;

And the heavens scowled, and the huskies howled, and the wind began to blow.

It was icy cold, but the hot sweat rolled down my cheeks, and I don't know why;

And the greasy smoke in an inky cloak went streaking down the sky.

 

I do not know how long in the snow I wrestled with grisly fear;

But the stars came out and they danced about ere again I ventured near;

I was sick with dread, but I bravely said: "I'll just take a peep inside.

I guess he's cooked, and it's time I looked"; ... then the door I opened wide.

 

And there sat Sam, looking cool and calm, in the heart of the furnace roar;

And he wore a smile you could see a mile, and he said: "Please close that door.

It's fine in here, but I greatly fear you'll let in the cold and storm—

Since I left Plumtree, down in Tennessee, it's the first time I've been warm."

 

There are strange things done in the midnight sun

      By the men who moil for gold;

The Arctic trails have their secret tales

      That would make your blood run cold;

The Northern Lights have seen queer sights,

      But the queerest they ever did see

Was that night on the marge of Lake Lebarge

      I cremated Sam McGee.