That Car:
I am a busy body, I seem to NEED
to be doing something. Before retirement
I was a workaholic. Before my sister
Shirl passed away Sherry and I visited some assisted living facilities, in her
behalf. We both liked most of them. We even agreed it would not be bad for us
about now to get aboard. I even like the
idea, EXCEPT what do you do with all that time?
I
mentioned to Sherry, maybe if they would hire me (on at min. wage) part time as
a maintenance man. I could handle it. That sounds like a good idea to me.
What else would you suggest? Now forget TV and movies, my hearing can
handle only a little of that.
I
know several people who can enjoy spending time crocheting, maybe I could learn
that.
I enjoy painting, maybe…..
One thing that could keep me busy is writing. I have written several
books but none have much depth. I have
thought about evening classes in writing at a local college, I might like that
and get inspired again. All my writing
has been mostly to satisfy my need to stay busy anyway.
BUT
dadgummit, I need tools. I need to FIX something. That satisfies something in
my psych (is that said right?) (Psych: the mind: mental
processes and activities.)
I know Sherry gets tired
of it. But about the time I get a house or Trailer remodeled or changed to suit
us (me), I am sorta ready to sell and find a fixer upper.
You
just cannot do that in a ‘facility.’ Wait
a minute, isn’t the hospital and jail a ‘FACILITY’, lemme think about this some more….
Nite
Shipslog
4 comments:
People like you who keep themselves busy in their later years lead healthier and more fulfilling lives. So don't feel guilty, grab your tools and get to working on something. It'll help your mental and physical health. Happy Thanksgiving to you and Sherry!
Think about it a little more. We have thought about it too. but aren't as active as you two. HAPPY Thanksgiving. ENJOY!
I think a retirement facility like you mention would be THRILLED to have you on site. Kinda like some apartment complexes offer rental discounts to policemen, just to have their presence. See, you'd be doing a public service! (*grin*)
Happy Thanksgiving
It's a tough call especially for such active folks as yourselves. It's never easy to admit we are slowing our roll....but you guys? I agree you should grab your tools and get after something that keeps you happy. There ya go overthinking again.! All kidding aside, if it's meant for you to slow down, it'll happen when it happens...til then, enjoy the ride.
loven'hugs from our thankful home to yours.
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